Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Such A Blessing!!


We got her !!!!!!

Our guide, Connie said she would pick us up at 2:00 pm to go to the Civil Affairs office to meet XiLing. I told Connie on the way there that we would prefer to be seated in a room and have XiLing brought in to us. It seemed less scary than having us descend upon her with her waiting in the room. Connie said that is what she was intending to do anyway. Well, we got off the elevators and lo and behold, there she was sitting with two of the orphanage employees. There was a little boy that was 3 years old that they had also brought to meet his parents. Well, XiLing was smiling but shy at first. We told her "Wo ai ni" which means "I love you" in Chinese. She said she was "happy" : she definitely was not the sad. grieving little girl we had anticipated. She is adorable, smart, attempting a lot of English and a firecracker. It must be something about these Guangdong girls, since our Zoe is the same way. XiLing is definitely feisty but in a very good way.

She brought 2 bags with her , one with a file of her school work and a couple of pictures and some of the markers, clothes and things we sent. We got the 2 disposable cameras back...don't know if they were used or not. Her nannies said that she was excited to have a family and has been waiting for us. She had cried a little on their trip to Guangzhou but had not cried initially leaving the orphanage. She had a couple of notes with her from a teacher and one from a nanny. They were very sweet and touching....I am glad that her life meant something to others while she was in China. Now she is in a family and her life will mean everything to us. She is so easy to love and very much a cuddlebug. It also actually appears that she will be a Mommy's girl! At least for now, until she figures out that Daddy is like the best dad a kid could have. And he's a little more fun than Mommy who actually has to discipline the crew! LOL.
She immediately attached to her sisters and within 5 minutes whe was "one of them". We bought a stuffed Panda with us and she loved that!

When we got to the hotel we gave her the backpack with the camera and Nintendo DS. She took like 100 pictures in a couple of hours and mastered the Nintendo already! I laugh because she has taken more pictures of me today than I have had taken in the last 10 years. Being the "family photographer" I am never in any pictures. She ate well at dinner which was at Lucy's and likes french fries. Typical American kid already.

She has had a bath, her hair washed, pajamas on and in a King size bed with Olivia and Leah. I can't believe that she is this easy. Thanks Aleda! (wink) ... more pictures to come

9 comments:

  1. Maggie and family! I am sooo happy for you. Will you post pictures too? I can not wait to meet her. Maybe you all could come to Florida this summer or maybe we could come there. I am glad things are going well. Let us know about your other visit too.
    Love,
    Lorrie

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  2. She is beautiful along with all of your other daughters. Congrats on your newest addition. We also have three Guangdong girls along with a spicy Hunan girl and soon to be Guizhou (Madison's kid). Can't wait to hear more and follow along on this wonderful trip

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  3. Congratulations!!!!! So glad you finally have her. Can't wait to meet her :-)

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  4. HI Maggie and family,

    I am so happy the transition went will. She is lovely. Yes, I remember Jing Jing taking numerous pictures too. Near the WS you can buy more cameras, which we did.

    We also rec'd that packet of school papers, and all had Jing Jing's American name that the orphanage gave her on them :"Jenna". That is all she wanted to be called at first.

    Jing Jing (Ana) just saw Ling Ling's pictures. She said she knew the ladies in the picture with Ling Ling from their orphanage. She also said she "I wish could play with her". She is happy that Ling Ling is happy. Please tell her Jing Jing said hi :):)

    Thanks for posting,

    Lee Ann

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  5. She's beautiful along with every one of those Weik girls! Congratulations and we welcome you home with open arms and lots of puppies! Love, the Lowes

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  6. Weik Family...
    I am so happy all is going well and I cannot wait to see all of you again soon. Congratulations on the newest member to the family...I cannot wait to meet you!
    Julie Koehn

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  7. Hi Marge,
    I can't believe that when I bookmarked a family traveling to China for their daughter (I love blogs)that I would know the family. Your daughters are beautiful. Congratulations.
    Lisa Pinter

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  8. Congrats, congrats, congrats :)

    I'll miss you in China by only a few weeks! I leave on the 20th!

    Hugs,
    Kate

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  9. Maggie, your updates never showed up on my blog. What a doll. I am so glad you have her. What a beautiful family!!!!

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